Factual or False Allegations of Abuse.
Last Updated on Saturday, 19 June 2010 08:46 Friday, 18 June 2010 15:09
Evaluating a Stranger's Claims of Abuse
The Los Angeles Joint Custody Association's Speedy Identification of Child Sexual Abuse Allegations could serve as a litmus test to the micro cause advocacy groups and individual on the Internet seeking moral and financial support from readers that they do not personally know. The descriptions in the guide provide an insight into the typical behaviors of those who make factual and false or fabricated allegations. Using the guide, readers quickly discern factual and fictional abuse claims.
In cases where there is a true basis for allegations, mothers are typically upset, secretive and embarrassed that this could happen to their child(ren). The kids are fearful and timid in the presence of an abusing parent. The descriptions of the abuse will be consistent, real and serious.
Candle for PAS
Saturday, 24 April 2010 23:14
Parental Alienation
Awareness Organization
Parental Alienation Awareness Organization reminds us that Parental Alienation Awareness Day - April 25
For those in areas that have no actives planned can light a candle for those families suffering needlessly because of parental alienation, and, for the children who are lost to parental alienation syndrome.
Search for the PAS group at http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng
Candle lighting sponsored by ConflictualPeople.com
Learn more about Parental Alienation at http://www.paawareness.org/
Parental Alienation Awareness Day
Monday, 19 April 2010 07:52
April 25th is Parental Alienation Awareness Day
Although the term may be controversial, it is commonly accepted that some parents or parental figures will aggressively attempt to undermine the child/parent relationship. In some states it may be called “alienation of affection” or “undermining the child/parent trust,” whatever it is called, parental alienation happens.
The term Parental Alienation (PA), sometimes called Hostile Aggressive Parenting, describes the behavior or tactics used to cause the child to significantly devalue or entirely reject a once loved parent. Alienating strategies often used are: denigrating and disparaging the targeted parent, corrupting the child’s reality or perception of events, disrupting the targeted parent time by distraction or disruption of the targeted parent’s access to the child.
Conflictual People with their “you’re either with me or against me,” black and white thinking more often than not also engages in alienation tactics. It may occur in conjunction with a full public smear campaign against the target.
It’s common sense to believe that any alienation of a child against a parent is harmful to the child; and the research backs it up. It’s important that those who are a target of a Conflictual Person and share children with that conflictual person to become fully educated in the tactic of parental alienation to have any hope of combating the attempts to alienate.
To learn more about Parental Alienation Day and the awareness activities being sponsored, check out www.PAAwarenessday.com. To learn more about Parental Alienation in general, check out our recommended reading and links page.
Warning Signs that you are dealing with a Conflictual Person
Last Updated on Tuesday, 30 March 2010 08:18 Tuesday, 30 March 2010 07:59
This is part 1 of a 3 part series to help identify conflictual people. Although conflictual people can be very good at hiding their true nature, they do have common traits that can help you identify them earlier. Having one or two of these traits creep up on occasion doesn’t make someone conflictual, having the traits along with a long track record does.
Conflict is their best friend
A conflictual person has to have constant conflict in their life. If it’s not at work it is at home. If not at home, it’s with extended family. If it's not with extended family it’s with friends. If the conflict is not with friends then it’s with strangers. They will have long running, never ending issues with someone close; such as a spouse or a former spouse, a parent, siblings, children or other close relative. Conflicts can last for weeks, month or years.
It’s common for a conflictual person to have long-term estrangements from family members. They may have not talked to or seen a parent, sibling or other close relation for years due to some wrong perceived by the conflictual person.
Sometimes conflictual people will identify individuals or groups of coworkers that are out to get them. Conspiracies can be as small as a couple coworkers out to get them fired to many groups of unrelated people out to get them. These people may find that they have been flagged by some businesses or agencies as problematic and outright banned by some.
Read more: Warning Signs that you are dealing with a Conflictual Person
New Divorce Poison
New, Revised Edition of Divorce Poison to be Released
Those us us with tattered, dog-eared, high lighted and annotated copies of Divorce Poison that didn't want to replace their old copy with the same thing, or, those who have yet to be introduced to what we consider the bible for combatting parent alienation take note: Dr. Warshack is due to release a new, updated edition on January 19th, 2010.
